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JeopardyThere are so many things happen to write about but I have not so much chance to sit down and revisit how my day went like I used to do. My work is demanding and traveling takes so much energy that I hardly feel like doing more than I need to. Whenever I have time like during weekend, I just want to sleep long and be so lazy...doing almost nothing.
Still only something I keep doing no matter how busy or how tired I am. Communicate to one person being so far away. but also so important....either email, chat, message, talk, or just think of. At least it makes me feel a bit closer.
I really hate this, the distance. It is killing, at least for me. The route is not so easy. Moreover, one thing that is so certain about the future is that it is so uncertain. But I am not afraid and am very positive...only if we start to take a step forward. One by one... soon we reach. When we don't take a step, we will never get there.
However, with relationship things are quite different and even much more complex because not only one person can build. It requires effort, patient, intention, love, care, understanding, and everything else from both persons.
I prey we survive it but no one really knows what is going to happen....
Love is like that fire place in the middle of the house. It keeps the place so cozy, well-lit, nice and warm. But whenever you ignore and forget about it, it gets burned down. And before you notice, it is gone. The place turns cold and dark.....
So, put more firewood. If you know what I mean.
Don't forget to care about each other feelings, sincerely saying nice things, and do little things that show that you think of them.
And only allow to have one fool at a time. So when one gets upset/emotional, another keeps calm and console. Because the time together is worthwhile, it is better not to spoil.
I say this just because I want to share what I have seen and noticed from people around me and partly myself. I see that good feelings between each other can die down when one takes Love for granted. We do not show and make another person realize how much we love them too. We forget to add good feelings to each other's day and make them feel loved and special. We do not cherish each other feelings like before but instead saying things that hurts. This is such a "jeopardy".
I am lucky that my parents are so cool. Oh they really have many moments which I can say not so great but most of the times that doesn't stay very long when love is still there. My dad is sweet but many times can be very tough to handle. My mother has such patient and great heart that no one can compare. Only sometimes she is a bit hot temper. No one is ever perfect... so Love and acceptance by one another are there to heal that imperfection to make things just as perfect as they can be.
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